loving "me"

Tonight I realized how important it is to love yourself & How loving yourself allows you to respect yourself.


"what we deserve & not what we want"


its crazy how we go through experiences in life were want something or someone
so much we deal with situations or feelings we shouldn't,or deserve to go trough.
Sometimes because we learn to depend others before we learn to love ourselves.
In order to love someone, one shall always love theirselves first.
When we are not happy with ourselves, how do we allow others to make us happy?
We blind ourselves with dependency for others because we haven't being
Exposed to any other happiness. If you ever find yourself in the position where
you feel you need that one other person in your life in order to be happy then the
chances of you getting hurt will arise. Many of the times when one depends on
another idividual for happiness, that person will put up with anything just to
have them by their side. I have many friends that have gotten hurt,
because they weren't able to picture themselves without their bf or gf. They
thought they needed them, and they wouldn't be able to find anyone better.
How can you be with some one who doesn't treat you right? Or someone
Who is not willing to do the things you do for them? Its very dissapointing
to see beautiful girls cry because they are "in love" with a guy who treats them
like crap! Or vise versa, a guy who sheds tears for a girl, who he has done anything
And everything in his power to make her happy! A person who honestly doesn't
deserve one single tear from him or her. Like my mom always told me
"If he doesn't appreciate you, or he doesn't treat you right, let him go!
Set him free, because when you least expect it, someone will come and
Be thankful , because he didn't deserve you!" So if you ever find yourself
In a situation where you have done it all, and he or she doesn't appreciate it,
Let it go, because there might be someone out there hoping and waiting for
Someone to do those things for them. Like I always said it is what you deserve,
Not what you want. Because the things you want are sometimes the things
You dnt need! Love yourself! Respect yourself! No one is worth your tears!
You deserve the best! Don't put up with no ones crap! You dnt need anybody,
You were born alone! Also, always remember to live by this (my fav) :
"I want you but I dnt need you!"
You should have person on your side because you want them there,
Not because you need them. God, Family& friends you need!
A boyfriend/girlfriend should be optional. If they deserve the title,
Then give it to them. If they mess up or take you for granted, then let them go
Because in the end they never "deserved" you.

<3

Life is like a movie, while you are on "pause" in the longest&worst scene of your life, some are "fast fowarding" to the next scene like nothing, but eventually those who suffered & experienced tough situations, will get their "happy ending". I like to think of myself as a "main character" who never gave up.

inpirational words

i love reading inspirational words. & i found a couple of good inspirational words/phrases/quotes. google is the best when your tying to look for something you dont know is there....if you like it as much as i do, ...enjoy!

"...Life’s battles don’t always go To the stronger or faster man.But sooner or later, the man who winsIs the man who thinks he can."-C.W. Longeneck


"A fault once denied, is twice committed.”
French Proverb

“Write your injuries in dust, your benefits in marble.” Benjamin Franklin

No matter how wonderful our dreams, how noble our ideals, or how high our hopes, ultimately we need courage to make them a reality. Without action, it's as if they never existed.